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More and more friends and acquaintances are becoming breeders and producing larvae. Most of them stop posting about themselves to post only about their screaming monsters. They think everybody will think their babies are cute only because they think it. Babies are like farts, only the producers will be not disgusted with it for sure.
I've never been contaminated by pregnancy hormones and I don't consider babies cute and I don't like when people push it to me.
For me babies are the definitions below
  | Ah, but what about that period a few years ago when you were bugging me about having children, because soon you would be so old that the risk of having a buggy child would go up? |
 | I like it when people find a good middle ground, both about how wonderful their children are, or how much they don't want children. Extremes on both sides are a bit icky. |
 | Agreed on the hate when ppl are pushing it to me.
Strong words but must admit that true... |
| different, animals are gr8 .......... |
 | I despise kids. I remember when my (then) girlfriend was pregnant (unplanned!) and going on and on about how it would be, what its complexion would be like, how it would cry, what it would study etc...I'm glad she spontaneously aborted. |
 | There isn't anything really positive in your list, is it? ;-) |
| English? Anglais? Englisch? |
 | Midas Dekkers is my idol. He is a Dutch biologist and he wrote a book about kids, he considers kids as fatty larvae. I'll see if I can find a translation of this article or I'll do it myself. |
 | Actually it is not an opinion poll, we just have the option of totally agree with your definitions, we haven't a partially agree or totally disagree options, but compare cats with children put me in a very awkward position, to me there is no comparison and I love animals more than people!
Anyways I never had that "I need to have children to realize myself as woman" feeling or thought, my pregnancies were "horrible", I never used to rocked my children, I mean the fact that I have two children doesn't mean that I love their drools, poops and responsibility involved (well thankfully with 9 and 11 years old they are very independent)
I wouldn't be able to take care of others children or work in a nursery school yet I love mine and wouldn't change them for anything, anything! |
 | It's from a famous Dutch biologist. It is very true, babies are like larva. But not in the negative sense of the word... (they just aren't done developing yet). |
| Thanks for the link. I wonder whether he is right about the social pressure that forces women to have children. |
|  Actually it is not an opinion poll, we just have the option of totally agree with your definitions, we haven't a partially agree or totally disagree options, but compare cats with children put me in a very awkward position, to me there is no comparison and I love animals more than people!
Anyways I never had that "I need to have children to realize myself as woman" feeling or thought, my pregnancies were "horrible", I never used to rocked my children, I mean the fact that I have two children doesn't mean that I love their drools, poops and responsibility involved (well thankfully with 9 and 11 years old they are very independent)
I wouldn't be able to take care of others children or work in a nursery school yet I love mine and wouldn't change them for anything, anything!  it's my poll, I decide what the options are.
And I'm not saying it's bad or disgusting to love you own children, what I don't like are people that want to push the idea that babies are cute. Babies are only cute for people that think they are. |
| nepeta wrote on Aug 17, '09, edited on Aug 17, '09 There isn't anything really positive in your list, is it? ;-) larva and sperm aren't negative |
| I'm just glad someone loved you guys when you were all screaming monster, boob sucking, failed abortion, human larva!
I definitely don't feel forced to "breed", or in my words, have children. I love all my friend's kids and my nieces and nephews and even *gasp* stranger's kids. I was a preschool teacher for 13 years and STILL love kids. Hopefully I'll be having one of my own in the next year! Maybe it's just a genetic thing.. |
| they buy their own food and clean their own litter box and contribute to the household in a financial way? :P |
| I'm just glad someone loved you guys when you were all screaming monster, boob sucking, failed abortion, human larva!
I definitely don't feel forced to "breed", or in my words, have children. I love all my friend's kids and my nieces and nephews and even *gasp* stranger's kids. I was a preschool teacher for 13 years and STILL love kids. Hopefully I'll be having one of my own in the next year! Maybe it's just a genetic thing.. some people love babies their whole life, I don't recriminate it, I just want that people understand that I consider babies disgusting and I don't want to hold them in my arms. I understand that some people are afraid, find disgusting or just don't like cats, so long they don't damage them, I respect them. I NEVER MISHANDLED BABIES and don't want to do it, so what is the problem if I find them disgusting and avoid them? |
| frouke wrote on Aug 18, '09, edited on Aug 18, '09 *notes* Frouke loves mating. It is just very hard to find the right person, because all nice men are already taken (see other post). |
 | True. I'm nice...and I'm taken. And I loathe babies. |
| lol, now I see my I mistyped the last option, I mixed menstruation with masturbation, lol, it's also a failed masturbation! |
 | I'm not calling names, I'm saying how I see babies, it's different from mishandle. Sorry to break it to you, but indeed you are calling names.
"Most of them stop posting about themselves to post only about their screaming monsters. They think everybody will think their babies are cute only because they think it. Babies are like farts, only the producers will be not disgusted with it for sure."
Ahem. Stop posting about themselves? When you have a baby, this IS your life. It'll be the most important thing that has ever happened in your life. I cannot see how someone can be so self-righteous as to say that people give up 'their' life for a screaming monster, like you said. Because I have contacts that post endless blogs about their meaningless life. Others rant on and on about their boyfriends. Some post all crap they can find from internet. Create Second Life personas or endlessly attack each other as virtual vampires. Or post really crappy, boring travel pics. And then there are some that are completely obsessed with their pets... If those people are your friends, chances are that you'll overlook that and forgive them their weirdness because they are your friends. If they are contacts, you just remove them when you've had enough.
What i fail to understand is how your "breeder" friends deserved this criticism. I guess they have access to this post here as well. If i were one of your friends who's recently had a baby, i would feel incredibly hurt and insulted and probably would not want to continue friendship with you. And don't be so sure that nobody but the parents like to see baby pics. I prefer this thousand times over the other posts that i described earlier. At least it's a perfectly natural, happy thing.
"I just want that people understand that I consider babies disgusting and I don't want to hold them in my arms."
I somehow doubt that your friends have twisted your arms into holding their babies or saying how cute they are. If you don't like, don't watch, don't comment, don't bloody hold the babies. But coming with extremely negative and obnoxious posts like this one is just over the top, along with the meat loaf baby picture that you posted the other day. This shows no respect to life and is as unfunny as racist/violent kind of jokes.
Good thing when radically self-centered people understand why they shouldn't bring kids in this world, though. All hail to that. |
| Sorry to break it to you, but indeed you are calling names.
"Most of them stop posting about themselves to post only about their screaming monsters. They think everybody will think their babies are cute only because they think it. Babies are like farts, only the producers will be not disgusted with it for sure."
Ahem. Stop posting about themselves? When you have a baby, this IS your life. It'll be the most important thing that has ever happened in your life. I cannot see how someone can be so self-righteous as to say that people give up 'their' life for a screaming monster, like you said. Because I have contacts that post endless blogs about their meaningless life. Others rant on and on about their boyfriends. Some post all crap they can find from internet. Create Second Life personas or endlessly attack each other as virtual vampires. Or post really crappy, boring travel pics. And then there are some that are completely obsessed with their pets... If those people are your friends, chances are that you'll overlook that and forgive them their weirdness because they are your friends. If they are contacts, you just remove them when you've had enough.
What i fail to understand is how your "breeder" friends deserved this criticism. I guess they have access to this post here as well. If i were one of your friends who's recently had a baby, i would feel incredibly hurt and insulted and probably would not want to continue friendship with you. And don't be so sure that nobody but the parents like to see baby pics. I prefer this thousand times over the other posts that i described earlier. At least it's a perfectly natural, happy thing.
"I just want that people understand that I consider babies disgusting and I don't want to hold them in my arms."
I somehow doubt that your friends have twisted your arms into holding their babies or saying how cute they are. If you don't like, don't watch, don't comment, don't bloody hold the babies. But coming with extremely negative and obnoxious posts like this one is just over the top, along with the meat loaf baby picture that you posted the other day. This shows no respect to life and is as unfunny as racist/violent kind of jokes.
Good thing when radically self-centered people understand why they shouldn't bring kids in this world, though. All hail to that. I'm sure there are people that like babies, but I loathe babies and I feel disgusted to see so many pictures of those drooling beings all the time. And most people I know DO try to make me carry their babies if I ever visit them to check the small monster and I hear all the time comments that I should be the next and I hate it. I prefer all the other kinds of posts, pokes, vampires, pornography and insults that disgusting baby pictures. |
 | Hey, I'm available!
Pros: Nice. Available.
Cons: Decided to stay this way. Hates children. |
 | Wombdumpling? Cuntnugget? |
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